Get Real: A practical guide on how to live it up (Paperback or Softback)

You're living the life you were told you should want-but deep down, it feels like a lie.

The job, the relationship, the routine, it all looks fine on the surface. But every morning, you wake up with a nagging feeling that something is missing. You're not miserable, but you're not truly alive either. Life feels like an endless loop of responsibilities, expectations, and waiting for the next weekend, vacation, or milestone.

But what if you could break free from this cycle? What if you could create a life you love. One that feels exciting, meaningful, and real-on your own terms?

That's exactly what this transformational book is here to help you do. Get Real is not another fluffy self help book-it's a practical, no-BS roadmap to building a life you love and stop living on autopilot.

In this book, the author shows you how to:

✅ Stop following the script society handed you and start creating a life that matters.

✅ Push past fear, self-doubt, and limiting beliefs that are keeping you stuck.

✅ Take action-even when you have no idea where to start.

No vague theory, no complicated exercises-just real, actionable steps to help you create a life that excites you.

Lien De Pau didn't write this book from the comfort of her office. "I wrote it after rebuilding my life in a way that finally felt like mine. I know what it's like to wake up and feel like your life should make you happy-yet something still feels off. I followed the script, built a career, checked all the right boxes. But deep down, I knew I was just existing. So, I did what most people only dream about: I stopped settling and started designing a life that actually excites me. I made intentional choices, faced my fears, and discovered what it means to live with freedom and purpose. And I also know that change is possible for you."

This book has already helped countless readers transform their lives in ways they never thought possible.

📌 L.G. had a wake-up call after reading one single sentence. She was exhausted from juggling work and motherhood when she read the words: "What if you drop dead tomorrow? Will you die with regrets?" It hit her so deeply that she broke down in tears. In that moment, she realized: I refuse to have regrets about my life!

📌 S.V. always knew being an employee wasn't for her. When she read Get Real, she felt an instant connection to my story. "Lien woke up one day and thought, 'Why am I even doing this?' That hit me hard. I felt the exact same way in my job. I needed more freedom-and to get there, I had to stop playing by everyone else's rules."

📌 A.D. was stuck trading time for money. She thought hourly billing was the only way to make a living until Get Real changed her mindset completely. "This book made me see I didn't have to keep selling my time. If Lien could do it, then I could too!"

If you too commit to this book, you will never see your life the same way again. You will stop feeling stuck, lost, or trapped by expectations that aren't truly yours. No more waking up wondering, Is this really it? You'll break free from autopilot mode and take back control of your life. By the time you turn the last page, you'll have the clarity, confidence, and courage to start making bold, intentional choices-ones that align with what you truly want.

This book will challenge you, push you, and open your eyes. And if you're ready to get real, it will change everything. Scroll to the top of the page and click "Buy now."

Lien De Pau helps high-achieving professionals in their 30s or 40s create a life they love through her transformative work as a bestselling author and founder. Her book "Get Real" shows readers how to build a life they love by breaking free from societal expectations. As the founder of The Freedompreneur Institute and The 7-Figure Exit(TM), she's dedicated to creating a life that matters while teaching others to do the same. She's also a top-performing Forbes.com contributor and proud global citizen who walks her talk when it comes to living life on her own terms.