I Can't Help the Way I Feel?: Exposing the lies that control you

WHO’S IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE?

Popular culture tells us that who we are and how we live are defined by how we think and feel. Our entire lives are dictated by the persistent thoughts that exist in our minds and the irregular whims of our feelings - and we are helplessly dragged along.

But what if you realized that how you feel doesn’t determine what is true? What if you discovered that you had the power to choose your thoughts? And what if choosing to align your thoughts and emotions with God’s Word resulted in freedom and a truly abundant life?

In I CAN’T HELP THE WAY I FEEL?, Robert & Gloria Stella candidly examine the current state of our culture and establish the truth of who you are and the authority you carry over your mind and heart in Christ. Then they breakdown the practical steps necessary for you to take back your life and live victoriously over your thoughts and emotions.

GOD DID NOT INTEND FOR US TO BE SUBJECT
TO OUR THOUGHTS AND EMOTIONS.

GOD INTENDED FOR OUR THOUGHTS AND
EMOTIONS TO BE SUBJECT TO US.

I CAN’T HELP THE WAY I FEEL? explores:

• The damaging effects of popular cultural mottos like “live your truth” and “be yourself” and “follow your heart
• Deconstruction of who we are as human beings and how emotions fit into our make-up
• How to reconcile when your emotions do not line up with God’s Word in common scenarios like unforgiveness, discouragement, depression, anxiety, “loving yourself” and “pursuing happiness”
• Understanding the foundation of deeper scenarios like lust, adultery, temptation, gender and sexual identity
• Practical insights on how to gain control of your emotions
• Spiritual insights on spiritual warfare, demonic oppression and how to have victory in Christ

Robert Stella is an author, speaker and Campus Pastor of Free Chapel Midtown in Atlanta, Georgia. He co-authored the book, CounterCulture Marriage with his wife, Gloria Stella.Whether he is delivering a message about leadership, business or spiritual growth, he is passionate about empowering people to live #counterculture. Before entering into ministry, Robert worked in corporate America and holds a Master's degree in Ministry from Richmont Graduate University. He and his wife reside in Atlanta, Georgia with their three children.Connect with Robert on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram at @robertstella. <br> Gloria Stella is an author, speaker, film producer/director and co-founder of En'val Entertainment. She produced and co-directed the faith-based movie Tulsa (2020) and produced the mma movie Blackbear (2019). She co-authored the books, CounterCulture Marriage alongside her husband and co-wrote the children's board book, The Lord's Prayer for Kids. Whether through movies, books or spoken messages, she is passionately dedicated to empowering people to live #counterculture. From topics ranging from marriage, to leading as a female, living in your purpose, and everything in between, Gloria delivers messages based on scriptural truths with candor and a strong emphasis on practical life application. Gloria resides in Atlanta, Georgia with her husband and three children. Connect with Gloria on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram at @thegloriastella.