Hot & Holy: Biblical Training for Christian Dating

It's simple math: if you're not whole, your relationship won't be either.

Dating isn't a game, but a training ground. If you keep bringing a broken version of yourself into relationships, you'll keep calling chaos "chemistry." Our culture celebrates sparks, but God is after substance. Butterflies fade . . . but wisdom builds. You don't need more "rizz." You need more readiness!

In Hot & Holy, Jacob Archer provides a fresh, practical, Scripture-rooted guide to dating with clarity, honor, and conviction. With bold honesty and pastoral insight, he helps readers protect their faith, strengthen their identity, and keep Christ at the center, long before marriage is on the table.

You'll learn:

• How to know when you're truly ready to date
• How to keep Christ at the center without over-spiritualizing emotions
• How to spot red flags like obsession, control, and love blindness early
• How to set healthy boundaries that protect your heart without fear
• How to date with wisdom and balance that honors God and people

Because the right relationship won't just feel good-it will make you more like Jesus.

Dr. Jacob Dean Archer is a pastor located in Puyallup, Washington. He has been pastoring youth and young adults now for more than a decade. Holding his masters degree from Southeastern University and Doctorate from Liberty University, he is passionate about helping young people form a biblical worldview. He is a dynamic communicator who is led by the Holy Spirit and wisdom from scripture. He and his wife, Ashley, have three kids. Their home is a means of ministry to fulfill their calling of training up the next generation.