The Impolite Canadian: Why Playing Nice Is Costing Us the Future

Canada is often praised as one of the world’s nicest countries. But what if that niceness is costing us the future?

In The Impolite Canadian, Kumaran Nadesan challenges one of the country’s most enduring myths: that politeness is a virtue in all things. Drawing on his experience in government, business, and civic engagement, Nadesan makes a sharp, convincing case that Canada’s quiet deference is holding it back—economically, diplomatically, and culturally.

This is a book about Canadian identity—but not the one you see on postcards. It’s about how immigrant success, bold leadership, and civic engagement can redefine what it means to be Canadian in the twenty-first century. It’s for readers who want a country that shows up, speaks up, and competes on the global stage.

With powerful examples—from Canada’s underrecognized role in global innovation to its overreliance on the United States—Nadesan argues that it’s time to stop waiting for permission. We must lead with clarity, economic competitiveness, and conviction.

If you’re a professional, policymaker, or entrepreneur wondering why Canada feels stuck—this book will not only name the problem. It will challenge you to be part of the solution.

KUMARAN NADESAN is Co-Founder and Deputy Chairman of 369 Global, a Canadian group of companies focused on skills training, media, and global talent mobility. A former civil servant in the Ontario Public Service, he has led initiatives in policy and innovation, partnerships, growth, and intergovernmental affairs. Kumaran has participated in international trade missions and is a vocal advocate for everyday Canadian leadership.

Named a CivicAction DiverseCity Fellow, Established Professional of the Year by the Canadian Tamil Professionals Association, and a finalist for Inspirational Leader of the Year Award at the Canadian SME National Business Awards, he brings a rare mix of public insight and entrepreneurial drive.

Kumaran lives in Brampton, Ontario, with his wife and two children.