Lessons from a Mixed up Childhood (Paperback or Softback)

Growing up in a world split between silence and survival, Mary Taris learned early how to navigate the spaces between love and loss, truth and pretense. In Lessons from a Mixed-Up Childhood, she revisits the memories that shaped her-from the confusing contradictions of a mother struggling with mental illness, to the deep bond of friendship that helped her feel seen for the first time.

Through honest, heartfelt storytelling, Taris shares what it meant to come of age as a mixed-race girl in Minneapolis during the 1970s-a time of school integration, shifting identities, and unanswered questions about belonging. Each chapter reflects a lesson learned the hard way: about resilience, self-worth, and the power of using your voice even when silence feels safer.

Written with tenderness and courage, Lessons from a Mixed-Up Childhood invites young readers, parents, and educators into a conversation about what it means to grow up feeling different-and how healing begins when we dare to tell our stories out loud.

¿ A story of survival, self-discovery, and the quiet courage it takes to turn pain into purpose.