Love That Was Meant For Me: Transform your patterns, transform your LOVE

Love was never meant to be complicated. It was meant to be yours." I’m Shai C, an Emotionologist, Certified Intimacy Coach and Psychotherapist. For years, I’ve sat with people in their deepest pain, helping them heal marriages, rebuild families and most importantly, reconnect with themselves. My approach blends Cognitive Behavioural Therapy with genuine human understanding, guiding you to break destructive patterns, shift your perspective and create the love you truly deserve. This book is honest and unfiltered. I share my own experiences of heartbreak, self-doubt and the moments I felt completely lost. Alongside my story, you’ll find case studies that reveal the hidden ways we sabotage love, together with affirmations that encourage you to trust yourself, honour your worth and cultivate unshakable self-love. Within these pages, you’ll learn how to turn pain into power, quieten the voice of self-sabotage and stop settling for ‘almost love’. You’ll discover how to open yourself to a connection that feels whole, authentic and lasting. This is not just a book about relationships—it’s a call to remember who you are. To fall in love with yourself first. To set a standard for love that reflects your true worth. Love was never meant to break you. It was meant to find you. And when you finally choose yourself, the right love will always follow. With practical exercises and affirmations woven throughout, this book is not only something to read but is also a guide to live by—a companion on your journey to self-love and real connection.

Shai C, an Emotionologist, Certified Intimacy Coach and Practitioner trained in psychotherapy. For years, I’ve sat with people in their deepest pain, helping them heal marriages, rebuild families and most importantly, reconnect with themselves.