If This Is Love, Why Do I Feel So Insecure?

Hindy, Carl G.; Schwarz, J. Conrad; Brodsky, Archie

ISBN 10: 0871133105 / ISBN 13: 9780871133106

Published by Atlantic Monthly Pr, 1989

About this Item

The item shows wear from consistent use, but it remains in good condition and works perfectly. All pages and cover are intact including the dust cover, if applicable . Spine may show signs of wear. Pages may include limited notes and highlighting. May NOT include discs, access code or other supplemental materials.

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Bibliographic Details

• Title: If This Is Love, Why Do I Feel So Insecure?
• Publisher: Atlantic Monthly Pr
• Publication Date: 1989
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 0871133105
• ISBN 13: 9780871133106
• Binding: Hardcover
• Condition: good

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Synopsis

A detailed survey provides information about romantic anxiety, obsession, jealousy, explains why people choose partners who make them feel insecure, and discusses parental influences

Reviews

New Hampshire psychologist Hindy, Schwarz, professor of psychology at the University of Connecticut, and Brodsky, coauthor of Love and Addiction , here present the impressive results of a research project on insubstantial relationships. Charts and questionnaires accompany stories of people whose marriages and/or romantic affairs fail, predictably and consistently. Case histories gleaned from the 1700 participants in the study dramatize situations that reveal how even accomplished men and women lose partners through self-defeating behavior. There are examples of anxious lovers exhibiting servility or belligerence, jealousy and possessiveness, etc., emotional flaws rooted, according to the authors, in childhood. Readers suffering from fears of rejection will find numerous parallels to their own experiences in the depictions of ways people drive away those they love. 50,000 first printing; $50,000 ad/promo; author tour.
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Basing their discussion on the results of tests taken by 1750 people as well as on numerous studies and interviews, the authors focus on what they call anxious romantic attachment or insecure love. In contrast to stable relationships, such attachments exhibit excessive anxiety, jealousy, detachment, and depression. To discover why some people are prone to these attachments and how they can help themselves, the authors offer tests, real-life examples, and concrete advice. Parents will find important chapters on how they affect the love relationships of their children's adult life. Challenging, informative, and helpful, this book is highly recommended.
- John Moryl, Yeshiva Univ. Lib., New York
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