How can a husband and wife stay hot for one another after years of marriage? How can they get in the mood for sex when all they really want to do is sleep? What's the one thing that men say they don't get enough of-and women hunger for the most-in bed? How can men and women enhance each other's sexual fantasies? What are couples' biggest turn-ons, biggest gripes?
Get ready for the candid and sometimes surprising answers in Pamela Lister's new book, which is based on what real couples want and what real couples do. Lister, a Redbook contributing editor whose beat is sex and marriage, analyzed the answers of 10,000 men and women who were polled in two of the magazine's massive online sex surveys to find out what really turns couples on - and keeps them passionate for each other year after year. By combining the online survey results with advice from sex experts, Lister helps married couples figure out the little and big things they can do to gain more fulfillment in their marriages.
PAMELA LISTER, a contributing editor to Redbook, researches and writes many of the magazine's sex and marriage articles and answers readers' questions in her popular column. She has been monitoring America's trends in marriage and sexuality for years. In researching this book, she polled 10,000 women and men across the country about the most private aspects of their sex lives. Lister's work has also appeared in Good Housekeeping, SELF, Working Mother, as well as the New York Times and Time Magazine. She lives with her family in New Jersey.