The Measure of a Good Man (Paperback)

John Lawrence Atkinson

ISBN 13: 9798185754788

Published by Independently Published, 2026

About this Item

Paperback. The provided text follows the life and emotional transformation of John Lawrence Atkinson as he navigates his journey from a long-term caregiver in New York to a life of fulfillment in Goldsboro, North Carolina. Through a series of reflective chapters, the memoir explores themes of resilience, the nature of love, and the impact of his marriage to Terrill L. Atkinson.Key takeaways from the text include: Redefining Love and Strength: The author moves away from his past belief that love and caregiving are burdens to be endured alone. Instead, he learns that true strength is found in vulnerability, reciprocity, and allowing oneself to be held by a partner.The Power of Partnership: His relationship with Terrill is central to this transformation, acting as a "landscape" and sanctuary that enables him to integrate his past struggles into a cohesive, meaningful story.Legacy and Service: The author emphasizes a legacy built on "the courage to remain tender," intending to support others through his writing and the Families of the Village initiative. He views his life as a testament to the fact that one's history does not have to be a prison, but rather a foundation for a future defined by intention and love.A Commitment to Presence: The closing chapters serve as a covenant of presence, where the author promises to maintain his devotion to his partner, his home, and his own emotional growth, choosing to live with an open heart.Ultimately, the memoir is a story of healing, illustrating how the author traded the weight of survival for the "lightness of shared joy," proving that it is never too late to begin a new chapter. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability.

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Bibliographic Details

• Title: The Measure of a Good Man (Paperback)
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Publication Date: 2026
• Language: English
• ISBN 13: 9798185754788
• Binding: Paperback
• Condition: new

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Synopsis

The provided text follows the life and emotional transformation of John Lawrence Atkinson as he navigates his journey from a long-term caregiver in New York to a life of fulfillment in Goldsboro, North Carolina. Through a series of reflective chapters, the memoir explores themes of resilience, the nature of love, and the impact of his marriage to Terrill L. Atkinson.

Key takeaways from the text include:

Redefining Love and Strength: The author moves away from his past belief that love and caregiving are burdens to be endured alone. Instead, he learns that true strength is found in vulnerability, reciprocity, and allowing oneself to be held by a partner.

The Power of Partnership: His relationship with Terrill is central to this transformation, acting as a "landscape" and sanctuary that enables him to integrate his past struggles into a cohesive, meaningful story.

Legacy and Service: The author emphasizes a legacy built on "the courage to remain tender," intending to support others through his writing and the Families of the Village initiative. He views his life as a testament to the fact that one's history does not have to be a prison, but rather a foundation for a future defined by intention and love.

A Commitment to Presence: The closing chapters serve as a covenant of presence, where the author promises to maintain his devotion to his partner, his home, and his own emotional growth, choosing to live with an open heart.

Ultimately, the memoir is a story of healing, illustrating how the author traded the weight of survival for the "lightness of shared joy," proving that it is never too late to begin a new chapter.