The Modern Mom's Guide to Dads: Ten Secrets Your Husband Won't Tell You

This "parenting relationship" book is based on the authors' experiences in leading more than 2,000 workshops with new and expectant dads to discuss parenting in a non-threatening environment. In it Hogan Hilling and Jesse Jayne Rutherford offer thoughtful insights into what makes dads behave the way they do. The Modern Mom's Guide to Dads draws on what Hilling has learned from working with dads and moms for more than fifteen years. He explains to modern moms what their husbands are really thinking about pregnancy, parenting, and marriage, and he teaches them how to get their husbands more involved with the kids and get some relaxation for themselves while keeping the peace in their marriages.

Hogan Hilling is the founder of Proud Dads, Inc., through which he develops and conducts expectant father classes for hospitals in Southern California and conducts workshops for mothers on fathering issues throughout the United States. The author of The Man Who Would Be Dad and the father of three boys, he and his wife, Tina, live in Newport Beach, California.

Jesse Jayne Rutherford is a mother and freelance writer. She is the co-author of Speaking Up: How to Help the Children You Work With Who Live in Abusive Homes and the author of Save the Date: A Curriculum for Teens on Developing Healthy Dating Relationships, which she wrote on staff at the Family Violence Project. She and her husband and daughter live near San Diego, California.