The Narcissistic Abuser. This item is unavailable.The Narcissistic Abuser

They're not weak. They're not naive. They're not masochistic.
So why can't they leave? If you've ever asked yourself this question—about yourself or someone you love—this book will change everything you think you know about victims of narcissistic abuse.
Survivors aren't chosen for their weaknesses. They're chosen for their strengths. Their empathy. Their loyalty. Their willingness to see the best in people. The narcissist didn't target a broken person—they targeted someone worth breaking. Volume 5 dismantles every myth about why people stay—and reveals the clinical truth about what narcissistic abuse does to the mind, the body, and the sense of self—drawn from 35 years of clinical practice and over 10,000 consultations with survivors.
In this volume, you'll discover: → The 12 psychological patterns found in survivors—and why these are strengths, not flaws → "Do I attract narcissists?" The painful question answered honestly → How emotional dependency develops—and why willpower alone can't break it → Traumatic amnesia: why you can't remember large parts of your relationship → "What if I'M the narcissist?" When the doubt turns inward (a classic sign of abuse, not narcissism) → The physical toll: depression, chronic illness, fibromyalgia, and how your body speaks what your mind can't → Suicidal ideation under coercive control—and induced suicide, the narcissist's ultimate weapon → Pregnancy with a narcissistic abuser: what no one talks about → How to actually help a survivor—for the friends and family who feel powerless
This book answers the question that outsiders always ask: "Why doesn't she just leave?" Because leaving isn't the problem. Understanding what was done to you is. Pascal Couderc is a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst who has spent two decades specializing exclusively in narcissistic abuse. He has treated both survivors and—on rare occasions—the abusers themselves.
Understanding is the first act of survival. This is Volume 5 of 8. Each volume stands alone, but together they form the most complete clinical resource available on narcissistic abuse.