A Needle in a Haystack: How to Find Love in the Rubble

Finding your perfect mate can be difficult, especially in today's world of online dating, casual hookups, and ghosting. So how does a person find their ideal match, and how do they know when they've found them?

In Needle in a Haystack, pastor and best-selling author Jameliah Gooden provides salient advice for how to "dig through the rubble" of the dating world, avoid unhealthy relationships, and date from a place of self and mutual respect. She writes like a close and honest friend, offering no-nonsense tips to help you find your true love.

Jameliah Gooden, along with her husband Fred, is a pastor at Unity Church of Charlotte, in Charlotte, North Carolina. She is also the host of the world-renowned Car Chronicles Movement, a Facebook Live show presented every morning at 7:30 a.m. eastern (carchronicles.org), with over 500,000 followers. Jameliah's best-selling self-help book, The Death of the Angry Black Woman, addresses the stereotypes Black women face and uncovers the seeds that lead many to live anger-filled lives. Mondays at 7 p.m. eastern, you can find the Goodens together on Facebook for their "Coupling" series, where they discuss solutions for maintaining healthy relationships. Jameliah hopes that her second book, A Needle in a Haystack, will help individuals to find their perfect mates and discover real and lasting love.