Overcoming the Behavior Challenge of Minding My Own Business: An Intervention Plan for Support

Overcoming the Behavior Challenge of Respecting Boundaries for Young Adults and Adults is a supportive, step-by-step guide for caregivers, professionals, and individuals who are learning how to develop social awareness, emotional independence, and respect for personal space and privacy. For many neurodivergent adults—especially those with Autism, Intellectual Disabilities, or developmental delays—understanding social boundaries can be challenging. Asking overly personal questions, interrupting private conversations, or involving oneself in others’ affairs may come from curiosity or confusion—not disrespect. This guide, created by a team of Board Certified Behavior Analysts (BCBAs), Speech-Language Pathologists, and Registered Nurses, uses clear visuals, social scripts, and communication tools to build insight and self-awareness. With a focus on dignity and real-life application, this book empowers individuals to better understand what’s appropriate, when to ask questions, and how to form respectful relationships at home, work, and in the community.

You GOT THIS!
— The OBC Team: Dr. Holthaus, BCBA Melissa Killam, and SLP Maggie Kuykendall