实际上，我们养娃的过程也是娃"养"我们的过程。这种养育并不仅限于经济上的供养，而是在心理上的滋养。很多时候，我们受到自己成长环境的影响，过于习惯扮演父母的角色，而不善于成为孩子们的朋友。我们认为自己是正确的，但他们未必认同。我们一些习以为常的习惯，他们可能觉得很尴尬。因此，在我们养育孩子的同时，他们也在改变我们，滋养我们。孩子们逐渐成熟，我们也逐渐放手，直到有一天，我们能像朋友一样一起喝茶聊天，思想碰撞，那就是养育孩子的最高境界了。

孩子小时候我们如何养育他们，他们长大后就会以怎样的方式"养育"我们。

这本《生活篇》并非一本育儿指南，而是作者阿朵与孩子一起成长的故事，这部书收录了在日常家庭生活中，父母和孩子们的互动，冲突，兄弟之间手足之情，课外活动，家庭会议，书信，以及疫情下的生活。

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赵丽彦，笔名阿朵，生活在美国硅谷的码工。大学，研究生学的是都是工科，心里却有一个文学梦。1997年来到美国，体验着中美两国文化的差异，养育着四个生龙活虎的孩子，也被孩子锤炼着，教育着，随笔记下生活中和孩子一起成长的点点滴滴，创建公众号《妹妹养娃那些事儿》。作品发表在美国《星岛日报》《世界日报》《侨报》《美国都市报》，北京《菁Kids》《红杉林》。文章被收集在清华大学出版社出版的海外文轩文集《教育，还可以......》《生活，还可以......》，长江文艺出版社出版的《成长源动力：哈佛学子与父母的隔空对话》，清华大学出版社出版的《名校家长学生家长教育手记》等。

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