"Leaving an abusive situation is the most challenging step a survivor can take. Siri Lagerløv honors that bravery by providing the essential foundation for emotional and physical safety. This guide gives survivors the necessary tools to navigate the system, making them feel less like victims and more like conscious creators of their new life. Refuge Ready is an empowering, vital roadmap to reclaiming control and starting the journey to healing and to finally start a life where they can be authentically themselves."
~ Amy Thurman, Author of two New York Times best-sellers, “Finding My Hero Within” and “Polish the Mirror: Self-Discovery”
Feeling overwhelmed by the idea of entering a women's shelter? You are not alone, and help is here.
Entering a shelter is the bravest step you can take toward a new life. But for many, the fear of the unknown can be the hardest part. You deserve to know what to expect and how to prepare.
Refuge Ready (US Edition) is a compassionate, practical guide that takes the fear out of the unknown. Written by an author with a unique perspective as both a domestic abuse survivor and a former refuge/shelter support worker, this book answers the questions you have and the ones you don’t even know to ask yet. (This edition is fully localised for the US system, covering benefits, housing, and legal specifics.)
This essential guide will show you how to:
Prepare for Your Journey: Find essential checklists for packing, preparing your children, and securing your documents.
Navigate Shelter Life: Understand the daily rhythm of a shelter, the importance of its rules, and how to make the most of the support systems available to you.
Find Your Community: Learn how to connect with other women and family workers who are there to help you on your healing journey.
Plan Your Future: Get clear, actionable advice on US housing, financial independence, and after-care support, ensuring you are ready for a fresh start.
Filled with empathy and clear, straightforward advice, Refuge Ready US Edition is more than just a book—it’s a lifeline. It is your first step toward reclaiming your power and building a future defined by your own choices.
You are stronger than you think. Let this book be your guide.