The Relationship Agreement Audit Workbook: A Relationship Audit & Reflection Guide For Couples Who Want to Build Lasting Love (The Second Bridge: Building Lasting Love)

The Relationship Agreement Audit is a practical companion to The Second Bridge: Building Lasting Love by Abas Alhassan. This guided workbook helps couples uncover the invisible agreements already operating in their relationship—and decide whether those agreements are building a strong future together.

At the heart of the workbook is a 50-Question Relationship Audit designed to spark honest conversations about the most important areas of long-term partnership. Each partner completes the audit individually and then compares responses together, revealing where the relationship is aligned—and where important conversations are needed.

Who is it for:

Individuals

1. Dating couples
2. Engaged couples
3. Married couples
4. Individuals reflecting on relationships

Professionals

1. Marriage counsellors
2. Relationship coaches
3. Therapists

Institutions

1. Churches
2. Marriage preparation programmes
3. Couples workshops
4. Universities

The audit explores ten critical relationship domains, including:
1. Communication and conflict resolution
2. Money and financial expectations
3. Parenting and family values
4. Career and ambition
5. Intimacy and affection
6. Faith, culture, and personal beliefs
7. Lifestyle expectations and independence
8. Long-term vision and life direction
9. Commitment and partnership expectations
10. The difficult questions most couples avoid.

In addition to the audit, this workbook includes chapter reflections connected to The Second Bridge, helping readers apply the principles of communication, trust, respect, and appreciation to their own relationship. The workbook includes questions couples should ask before marriage, helping partners explore important topics that determine long-term compatibility. The paperback edition includes space to write your responses and complete the full Relationship Agreement Audit with your partner.