How to Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship : Speaking from Experience

A laugh-inspiring book chockfull of the kind of "gotcha's" that contain serious lessons just beneath the surface.

Pat Love and Sunny Shulkin hold up a big fun-house mirror to the kind of relationship behavior most of us are guilty of. Yup, there we are -- expecting but not giving … paying attention to everyone but our partner…waiting for things to get better by themselves – so many relationship–busting behaviors, so little time! Thing is, Pat and Sunny’s observations may make us giggle, but they also reveal something very important: they show us what "growing apart" really looks like, day to day. And with most couples who split up giving this as the reason for the split, becoming conscious of how growing apart manifests a long the way seems one good way to prevent the ruination of a perfectly good relationship (one that can get even better with some attention to the details).