As They See It: Reflections on Divorce and Separation for Parents, Professionals & Adult Children

As They See It explores a variety of common themes related to separation and divorce, written by a parenting professional, through the eyes of children and adults. In a unique poetic format, it can provide a path to healing for parents and kids.

Who This Book is For:

• Separated, Divorcing, and Divorced Parents
• Professionals Working with Divorcing or Divorced Parents
• Adult Children Who’ve Been Through It
• Family and Friends of Divorcing or Divorced parents, children

When I read Judith’s poems, they describe scenes that are very familiar to me. As a child-focused judge and mediator, I hope all parents will read these poems and hear the voices of their children.
Eve Miller, Senior Judge

This collection is not only a gift to parents and professionals, but a compassionate invitation to see -- and feel -- through a child’s eyes.
Jonathan M. Berman, Family Law Attorney and Mediator

I have known and worked with Judith for almost three decades now. Her
knowledge about families separating and divorcing runs deep. Judith has
compassion for all parties involved in family transitions. And, she has never lost
sight of understanding that parents’ decisions and behavior impact kids – for
better and for worse. Her support in assisting parents in high-conflict is one
indication of that support.

Hillary Hyde, MSW, CFLE
Associate Professor of Practice Emerita,
Portland State University

In a few words of poetry, Judith was able to nail the emotions and challenges faced by all involved. I am delighted that she is now sharing this gift of knowledge and “in the trenches” experience with a larger audience.
Enjoy, ponder, and just feel it all.

Judith Moyer, MS
Retired veteran of Family Court Services

Judith’s poems are sensitive and supportive. They reflect a unique insight into the experience of children in divorce and separation. Judith has devoted her career to amplifying the voices of children, and her talent in writing poetry is the perfect vehicle.

Linda Scher
Family Mediator