How Do We Tell the Children : A Parents' Guide to Helping Children Understand and Cope When Someone Dies

Lyons, Christine, Schaefer, Dan

ISBN 10: 0937858609 / ISBN 13: 9780937858608

Published by Newmarket Press, 1991

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Bibliographic Details

• Title: How Do We Tell the Children : A Parents' Guide to Helping Children Understand and Cope When Someone Dies
• Publisher: Newmarket Press
• Publication Date: 1991
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 0937858609
• ISBN 13: 9780937858608
• Binding: Hardcover
• Condition: Very Good
• Weight: 2 pounds

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Synopsis

In the painful, confusing time following a death, the problem of what and how to tell the children is one of the most difficult a parent can face. In this important parenting guide, author Dan Schaefer shares his 25 years of experience helping parents communicate with their children. HOW DO WE TELL THE CHILDREN? provides the straightforward, uncomplicated language that will explain the facts of death to children from 2 years old to teenagers, and shows how to help children cope with their feelings of grief, fear, and loss. Its commonsense approach is based on years of observation and conversations with thousands of parents and their toddlers, preschoolers, young children, and adolescents, and it includes insights from numerous psychologists, psychiatrists, educators, and clergy. A unique feature of the book is a Crisis Section that gives parents quick reference to key pieces of information, as well as answers to questions about special situations such as accidents, suicide, and sudden

From Library Journal

Parents of children living in an era of assassination, air disaster, and space tragedy need this clear, extremely readable guide to helping their kids deal with death. Schaefer, a funeral director and lecturer, and Lyons, a journalist, quote many psychologists and social workers as they discuss areas like children's reactions (anger, guilt, responsibility) to murder, suicide, and SID; to attending the funeral; and to the normal biological "message" of death ("wore out"). They stress flexibility and age-related needs and also provide a useful crisis section, but they might have omitted statements like "death is a form of abandonment" and "the greatest denial is a closed casket." Otherwise, highly recommended. Bibliography and list of support groups not seen. Janice Arenofsky, formerly with Arizona State Lib., Phoenix
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