The Trust Factor: How To Rebui

You can rebuild lost trust... This book was written for you, a couple just like us—two people who have experienced the pain of broken trust (sometimes repeatedly) yet desire to rebuild and  have a marriage that is truly extraordinary.

Throughout this book, we will share how trust has been broken and rebuilt during our 25 years of marriage. We will also share stories from those who have worked with us to rebuild the trust in their marriage.

This book is built on the idea that when you take action, you can change not only your circumstances but also your feelings. In fact, we believe that if you want to see a change in how you feel, you need to start doing something different.

Who’s this book for?

• Couples who are dealing with unresolved pain.
  
• Couples lacking emotional and sexual connection.
  
• Couples who need a guide to rebuild trust.
  
• Couples need defined guardrails in their marriage.
  

After reading The Trust Factor, you’ll be armed with the knowledge you and your spouse need to rebuild the trust that either of you or both of you have broken. At the end of each chapter there are practical exercises to rebuilding the trust with your spouse.

What’s in the book?

• Why would you hurt me? Why did my partner break my trust?
  
• How can I hurt you? Let me count the ways
  
• Get over "It" already
  
• Get me OFF the emotional roller coaster
  
• More than just a Band-Aid: The healing process
  

Your spouse is depending on you to enhance your marriage in a way that will honor both of you.

This marriage-changing information is brought to you by two of the most inspiring marriage professionals, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo, with years of experience offered to you in the pages of this brand new book.

It’s a must-read for anyone who is married.

Welcome and thank you for taking the time to learn about what makes us so passionate about what we do and why we’ve chosen this path. We believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage... it’s the glue that will keep a marriage together. What has taken us on this journey, you ask? Well, a combination of things. Both bumps in the road and a ton of work... and recognizing that valuing our marriage means giving it time and attention (and a lot of TLC) so it grows and flourishes. Our story isn’t one for the history books, but it has brought us to this place of knowing and sharing. Relationships evolve and ours is no exception. As a result of this journey, we created ONE Extraordinary Marriage to educate, entertain, encourage, and inspire you to have mind-blowing intimacy and a deep-level connection in your marriage. Whether you listen to our podcast, read our articles, or connect with us through social media, we hope that ONE Extraordinary Marriage enhances your marriage and gives you the tools to make your marriage the absolute best it can be. Our Story We have been married for 17 years and not all of them have been happy ones. Like you, we came together with every good intention and “forever” in mind, but then “life” happened and we found ourselves ill prepared to deal with our marriage challenges. Not only were we struggling as a couple, but also we were both struggling with our own personal hurdles independent of one another. Our “bumps in the road” were actually mountains in our eyes and we knew that in order to get to the other side, keep our family together, and experience a loving, intimate marriage, we were going to need to dig deep and address our circumstances head-on. Dealing with it all was our commitment to each other. Together, we overcame Tony’s 18-year addiction to pornography, the loss of a child at 18 weeks, debt in excess of $50,000, poor communication, lack of collective interests, and questioning trust. But, the key word here is “together”. We’ve learned some hard knock life lessons and we’ve discovered key principals that have kept our marriage (and sex life) alive and flourishing... and we did it together. We can do the same for you!