THE UNRESOLVED CODE: Breaking the Trauma Loops, That Keep Families Stuck (The Attachment Code Breaker Series)

In The Unresolved Code, Dr. Shoemaker delivers a message that is both urgent and long overdue: the most important attachment work in any traumatized child’s life begins not with the child — but with the caregiver’s own unresolved trauma. Through eleven original meta-analyses and 33 years of frontline experience, he shows with striking clarity how the “Unresolved Code” and the “Wounded Healer Trap” quietly drive burnout, divorce, disrupted placements, and the creation of new trauma in homes and classrooms.
What makes this book exceptional is that it does not stop at diagnosis. Dr. RAD gives readers a practical, evidence-based pathway forward through the 3-Stage Reboot — Snapped → Shifted → Solid — that has transformed countless families.