(Un)Tangled

Small shifts. Big impact. One week at a time.
Co-parenting doesn’t have to feel like a tug of war.

In (Un)Tangled, clinical psychologist and co-parenting expert Dr. Deborah Gilman offers 52 practical, powerful habits—one for every week of the year—to help divorced or separated parents reconnect with what matters most: raising emotionally secure, resilient kids.

Whether you’re deep in conflict or navigating the quiet tension of parallel parenting, this book meets you where you are. Each habit is rooted in neuroscience, attachment theory, and real-life stories from families who’ve been there.

Expect no shaming, no jargon—just a steady hand to guide you through the messiness, one week at a time.

Start untangling the knots. Your child’s future is worth it.

Dr. Deborah Gilman is a licensed psychologist, expert in attachment and trauma, and co-parenting consultant with over two decades of experience helping families heal and thrive.