Understanding shame as a signal that things we enjoy are being impeded.
There is much more to shame than its reputation as a negative emotional state. This clinical book delves into the role of shame in many complex issues such as personality disorders, anxiety, depression, and addictions. In each example the authors show how an understanding of the positive side of shame can be translated into practical therapeutic interventions. 15 illustrations
Vernon C. Kelly, Jr. has been in the private practice of psychiatry since 1975. He specializes in the treatment of emotional disorders in adolescents, adults, and relationships. He was the co-founder of the Silvan S. Tomkins Institute with Donald L. Nathanson and subsequently served as Chairman of that organization. Working with Silvan Tomkins, he developed an affect-based definition of emotional intimacy and innovative methods of couples treatment. He has been invited to teach about affect and emotion in Australia, New Zealand, Norway, Canada, and the USA. His written works include The Art of Intimacy and the Hidden Challenge of Shame and a book co-edited with Margaret Thorsborne, The Psychology of Emotion in Restorative Practice.
Mary C. Lamia, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in Kentfield, California and professor at the Wright Institute In Berkeley. She is a frequent media expert and commentator, and she blogs for Psychology Today, Therapy Today, and Thrive Global. She is the author of What Motivates Getting Things Done: Procrastination, Emotions, and Success; Understanding Myself: A Kid's Guide to Intense Emotions and Strong Feelings; Emotions! Making Sense of Your Feelings; and, The White Knight Syndrome: Rescuing Yourself from Your Need to Rescue Others.