What Men Want: Three Professional Single Men Reveal to Women What It Takes to Make a Man Yours

A Doctor, A Lawyer, and an Accountant tell You Everything You Need To Know About What Men Want.

If you're like most women, you're in the dark about what men really think about love. Drawing on their own bachelor years in New York, the three authors dismantle the unspoken male code that governs everything from the first phone call to the timing of an engagement ring.

Brad, Chris, and Rich share candid case studies from their shared beach house to explain the unspoken fears behind unreturned calls and stalled relationships.

The guide lays out clear signals to separate a casual fling from a lasting partner, showing why men clam up under pressure and when they are ready to settle down.

This enormously helpful book takes you into the heart and mind of the single professional male to show you not only what but how he thinks about dating and being in love, about what turns him on, and what sends him running in the other direction.

• Relationship Advice: Learn how a man’s mental balancing scale measures fear of rejection against attraction before he ever crosses a crowded room.
• Dating Strategy: Discover why men sort dates into weekday casual companions versus weekend partners with long-term potential.
• Communication Skills: Decode the male aversion to relationship talks and master straightforward, goal-oriented requests that resolve conflicts without triggering defensiveness.
• Actionable Strategies: Understand why men need male bonding rituals like sports and nights out with friends, and how granting independence fosters deeper commitment.
• Also by This Author: Marry Me!.

Bradley Gerstman Esq., is a partner at the law firm of Raskin & Gerstman LLP in New York City.

Christopher Pizzo, CPA, obtained his M.B.A. in finance at New York University and works as a vice president of finance at a firm in New York City.

Rich Seldes, M.D., lives and practices medicine in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.

Bradley Gerstman Esq., is a partner at the law firm of Raskin & Gerstman LLP in New York City.

Christopher Pizzo, CPA, obtained his M.B.A. in finance at New York University and works as a vice president of finance at a firm in New York City.

Rich Seldes, M.D., lives and practices medicine in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.