When My Parents Forgot How to Be Friends: Helping Kids Cope with Separation and Divorce (Let's Talk About It!)

When parents separate, a child's world can feel upside down. This gentle, honest picture book helps children understand family change and reassures them they are always loved.

When My Parents Forgot How to Be Friends is a trusted resource for families, teachers, and counselors guiding children ages 4–7 through divorce, separation, or major changes at home. With clear, compassionate language and expressive illustrations, it helps children put their feelings into words, eases guilt and confusion, and opens the door for healing conversations.

What This Book Offers:

• Speaks directly to children's most pressing worries: "Is this my fault?" "Will my parents still love me?"
• Validates every emotion―sadness, anger, worry―showing kids they're not alone and it's okay to feel
• Empowers families to talk honestly about separation, fostering connection and resilience
• Uses simple, accessible language for younger readers and all family situations
• Includes a parent guide with expert advice and conversation prompts for ongoing support

Part of the acclaimed "Let's Talk About It!" series, trusted by families and educators to help children navigate big feelings and life's toughest moments with confidence and care.

Support your child through family changes with this essential, heartfelt story designed to bring comfort, hope, and understanding to every home.

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Let's Talk About It!

When My Parents Forgot How to Be Friends

My parents used to be friends and I was happy. We did everything together.

Then things started changing.

My parents were always sad, and when they talked it was only to argue.

I used to think it was my fault that my parents weren't friends any longer . . . but now I understand that they can get along better if they each live in a different house.

Whatever happens, my Mom and Dad will never stop being my parents . . .

and best of all . . .

they will always love me.

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