When His Secret Sin Breaks Your Heart: Letters to Hurting Wives

Behind every husband enslaved to sexual sin, there is a woman reaping the horrible side effects of his self–centered life–style. What can be more devastating for a wife than to discover her husband has a secret obsession with pornography and other women? Yet, this is what countless Christian wives face every day. Kathy Gallagher has been there; she understands the pain of rejection, the feelings of hopelessness and the questions that plague a hurting wife.

In this collection of letters, Kathy imparts heart–felt encouragement by providing the practical, biblical answers that helped her find healing in the midst of her most trying storm. The 30–day journal offers wives a place to prayerfully reflect and meditate upon Kathy’s letters. When His Secret Sin Breaks Your Heart testifies that there is hope for the most dejected of souls and the bleakest of marriages.

In 1986, Kathy Gallagher helped her husband Steve found Pure Life Ministries, a ministry for men struggling with habitual sexual sin. Kathy soon found herself spending countless hours ministering to the hurting wives of these men, pointing them to Jesus and giving them hope through the very answers that worked for her. Today, because of Kathy’s passion to help these women, hundreds of wives receive counseling through Pure Life’s At–Home Program For Wives each year. She and Steve make their home in rural Kentucky where she serves as the CFO of Pure Life Ministries.