Where Were You When I Needed You, Dad?: A Guide for Healing Your Father Wound

Offers adults whose fathers were absent, abusive, or remote while they were growing up a series of exercises designed to help one come to terms with the past and develop self-confidence and a positive self-image

Clinical psychologist Drew offers a seven-step program directed at men and women whose fathers were absent, abusive, overly judgmental, or emotionally withdrawn. Taking examples from her life and the experiences of her clients, Drew uses techniques familiar to those acquainted with the recovery movement (e.g., visualization, writing, and drawing with the nondominant hand) to guide the reader in assessing and understanding the father's role. She discusses letting go of anger, laying the foundation for healing, and building healthy future relationships. A final chapter includes advice for friends and partners. The book is delightfully illustrated and easy to read, although a section examining cultural differences in fathering would have given the book wider appeal. Recommended for public libraries.
- Lucille Boone, San Jose P.L., Cal.
Copyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc.