I'm a tax (Enrolled Agent) and financial (Certified Financial Planner-licensee) professional who became involved with an alcohol and other-drug addict in the early '90s. I barely survived the ordeal. Vowing "never again," I decided to learn everything possible about addiction. What I discovered was fascinating, empowering and designed to protect more than just me (alcoholism causes misbehaviors and if we observe such poor behaviors, there is likely addiction). Over the years, my role has evolved to addiction "researcher" who serves as a bridge for information about addiction between the few who "get it" and the mass of people who've never been introduced to the ideas.
You can find the results of my research in my books and online addiction report. The latest, "Alcoholism Myths and Realities," debunks the myths of addiction and eliminates the stigma of alcohol and other-drug addiction. Eliminate that stigma and we are far more likely to identify the disease when it threatens our health and safety, which is what my third book, "How to Spot Hidden Alcoholics," is all about (it uses behavioral clues to identify addiction in the early stages of the disease). My second book, "Get Out of the Way!" helps drivers spot likely DUIs before they become tragically obvious (you'll never again look at the road the same way). My first book, many readers of which think is my most important, is "Drunks, Drugs & Debits," and while focusing on identifying addicts in the hope of avoiding financial abuse, is actually a comprehensive look at addiction designed to give a "gut feel" for the disease. Read it cover to cover and you'll never again knowingly enable a practicing addict.
I'm very proud that a google search of "early-stage alcoholism" generally lists me in the top two or three positions, which shows how few are focusing on this overlooked stage of addiction, when the addict is most destructive of others.
For those who know personality type, I'm a scientifically-minded INTJ married to Marty, an inventive ENTP. We live in Northridge, California with our three cats, Tuxeda, Whiskers and Marmalade.