Violet Tasker was born in England on 6th January 1941 ..as a war baby a week after her birth she was give to one of the homes for unwanted babies..there she stayed until adopted at the age of 8 to a family of 4 children ..her life was not good ..another book should be written about the life she had ..now she gives talks on grief life after death and the positive side of life .. she is open to any group that would like to bring her to them to speak and share her story ..at 73 she lives in New Zealand in a pleasant rented unit in Nelson with her cat Phoebe