Randy Stocker

On July 22, 2003, my mother, Jean, and my two daughters, Jenelle-age 19, and Amy-age 9, were all killed by a distracted semi-truck driver. Believe it or not, he was speeding and reading a book when he instantly killed all three. We learned that most people don't understand grief and grieving. My book, Hugs Help-Our Story of Tragic Loss, Survival, and Helping Others has helped thousands navigate the complexities of loss personally and professionally.

I live in Rochester, MN and am considered an expert on loss, grief, and resilience. Key takeaways from my book and presentation include:

--Understanding the widespread impact of loss

--Identifying secondary losses and their impact over a lifetime

--Understanding what a griever is thinking, but not saying

--Learning what to say and how to best support those who are grieving

--Learning ways to "move forward" after loss.

To learn more, check out my website at www.hugshelp.org.

Randy Stocker