Jordan Blake

Jordan Blake writes about the uncomfortable parts of personal growth that most people avoid talking about: shame, insecurity, fear, and the messy work of learning how to become a better human.

Blake is not a therapist. Her writing comes from lived experience, years of research, and the hard lessons that come from learning how our own behavior shapes our individual experiences.

The book Own Your Sh!t grew out of a simple observation: when people genuinely feel secure in themselves, they treat others better. When they don’t, insecurity and unresolved pain spill into everyday interactions through patterns like blame, defensiveness, passive aggression, jealousy, and avoidance.

Blake invites readers to let go of shame and look at those patterns with honesty and compassion. The book offers practical steps to developing self-awareness, taking accountability, and building the kind of self-respect that grows when people are willing to face themselves truthfully and compassionately.

Blake’s work explores how unhealthy behavior shows up in everyday life, and what it takes to recognize those patterns and change them. Own Your Sh!t is the first in a series of books that examine these dynamics more closely in different areas of life, including relationships, trauma recovery, and leadership.