Have I given you my CONSENT?

We need to encourage children to take control of their body and personal space from an early age.

Children may not always understand their rights and so it is important to teach them about consent. As adults we must not assume that all situations are comfortable for children.

This book can act as a tool for teachers, parents and health professionals in assisting children to understand the concept of consent. It also provides examples of situations which may be uncomfortable for some children and teaches them that in those situations, they can choose whether to give or not give consent.

This book is simple yet profound in its verse and illustrations which enables the child and reader to talk about some of the 'uncomfortable' situations the child may find themselves in. Some of those situations could include people tickling them, hugging them, entering their personal space, cyber safety and many other scenarios.

It is important for parents, teachers and professionals to teach children how they may respond in those 'uncomfortable' situations so as they grow they have a better understanding of their rights around giving or not giving consent.

Beautiful large full color illustrations which makes the book a joy to read for both the child and the reader.

As an abuse survivor, I have a passion for keeping children safe.

Growing up in the Western Suburbs of Melbourne, Australia, was challenging as at the time, family violence and prejudice was a common occurrence. But it was through these challenging moments of my life that I learnt how important it was to have a voice.

I have spent more than 30 years working in social services with children, young adults and older adults in a variety of roles, facilitated protective behaviour programs for young girls with additional needs, and volunteered for the Office of Public Advocates. This journey has given me incredible experience and insight into the needs of our children, and the more vulnerable members of our community.

Sharing such valuable moments with families and children, coupled with extensive training over the years, has enabled me to better understand the important and relevant social issues of family violence, abuse, trauma and neglect, and the lasting impact they have on children and adults.

As I continue to write and publish educational books, it is my hope that they will be used as a tool to give a voice to those who need it, so that we can prevent abuse, trauma and neglect before it has a lasting impact on a person’s life.