Her Way: Young Women Remake the Sexual Revolution - Hardcover

Kamen, Paula

Hardcover

ISBN 10: 0814747337 ISBN 13: 9780814747339

Publisher: NYU Press, 2000

Synopsis

How young woman are redefining sex 30 years after the Sexual Revolution

Three decades after the Sexual Revolution, women's power and status have begun to match men's, and women are finally making the rules in order to experience a more radical and truer form of liberation.

Her Way demonstrates how and why 20- and 30-something women have evolved to act and think more like men sexually, while also creating their own distinct sexual patterns and appetites. Today's young women are now the leaders of an unreported but sweeping "Sexual Evolution," in which women take control of sex and redefine it from their perspective. In other words, do it "her way."

Paula Kamen characterizes this Sexual Evolution according to two major developments that are setting sexual patterns for future generations of women: young women's sexual profiles are now remarkably similar to those of men, in terms of age of first intercourse, and numbers of sex partners and casual encounters. They also feel less guilt or shame about their behavior, from premarital sex to having a child out of marriage to coming out of the closet to cohabiting.
Yet young women are not merely imitating men, but forging their own distinct sexual perspectives and asserting their own needs. In addition to discovering the pleasures of sex, young women are also exploring the dilemmas, challenging male-defined sexual scripts, and changing what actually goes on in bed.

Based on more than one hundred lively, unfiltered and in-depth interviews with women across the country, Her Way cuts through the sensationalism and speculation of popular discussions about young women and sex. Kamen reports the real story of today's enhanced sexual expectations and choices.

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About the Author

Paula Kamen is the author of Feminist Fatale: Voices from the Twentysomething Generation Explore the Future of the Women's Movement. Her work has appeared in the New York Times, Washington Post, Ms., the Chicago Tribune, EXTRA!, the Dallas Morning News, and Newsday. She is a visiting research scholar at Northwestern University's Women's Studies Program.

Reviews

With intelligence and flair, Gen-X feminist, journalist and playwright Kamen (Feminist Fatale) presents an exhaustive study of the sexual mores of the women in her generation. Based on 100 interviews and a wealth of statistics, Kamen persuasively argues that ever since the sexual revolution provided widespread access to birth control and information on topics ranging from masturbation to homosexuality, young women have been undergoing a slow, steady "sexual evolution." Today, she declares, college-age women's attitudes and behaviors closely resemble those of their male counterparts: on average they have almost as many partners as men and are less opposed to casual sex than previous generations. In Kamen's view, this trend indicates that Gen X women have achieved a high sexual comfort level. Consequently, while young women may have more sexual partners than they once did, virgins are also stepping proudly out of the closet, along with unmarried mothers, women who choose to remain single, lesbians and bisexuals. Their confidence has encouraged a new activism, as women insist on speaking out about once-taboo experiences, such as sexual harassment, molestation and rape. Kamen even goes so far as to suggest that President Clinton would have been in a better position if he had understood Monica's generational perspective on sex. (Jan.) Forecast: Critical yet nonjudgmental, Kamen's lively book is a welcome primer on contemporary sexual ethics. Bolstered by an author tour that will push her visibility beyond academic circles, it's sure to be a hit among feminists of all ages even while it raises eyebrows in other camps.
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Kamen, a journalist, describes as evolutionary the changes in young women's attitudes toward sex, building on the revolutionary changes in attitudes of the baby boom generation. Women's autonomy and choice are at the center of new attitudes that have resulted in earlier sexual involvement with more partners and less guilt and shame than women of previous generations had. Kamen interviewed more than 100 Generation X women, researchers, and activists for this insightful examination of how women's sexual attitudes have changed and how those changes are reflected in current U.S. culture. She cites examples as diverse as the sexual aggressiveness of Monica Lewinski and contemporary female rap and pop singers to young women fighting against date rape and sexual harassment, as evidence of women's resistance to society's expectations. Kamen offers candid interviews and compelling insights on the impact of social developments such as the feminist movement, the backlash against it, and the threat of AIDS on young women's attitudes about sex. This is a provocative look at changing female sexuality 24 years after The Hite Report. Vanessa Bush
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Edition details

• Publisher: NYU Press
• Publication date: 2000
• Language: English
• ISBN 10: 0814747337
• ISBN 13: 9780814747339
• Binding: Hardcover
• Edition number: 1
• Number of pages: 288