Making Loss Matter: Creating Meaning in Difficult Times - Hardcover

Wolpe, David J.

Hardcover

ISBN 10: 1573221414 ISBN 13: 9781573221412

Publisher: Riverhead Hardcover, 1999

Synopsis

Sharing a message of hope in difficult times, a rabbi explains how the inevitable appearance of loss in our lives can become a source of strength, faith, hope, meaning, and purpose rather than of despair.

About this title

About the Author:

Rabbi David Wolpe is a regular guest on national television and radio, and has been featured on the A&E series Mysteries of the Bible. The rabbi of Sinai Temple in Los Angeles, he was ordained at the Jewish Theological Seminary of America and has taught there and at the University of Judaism in Los Angeles. Wolpe is the author of four previous books, including In Speech and in Silence.

From Publishers Weekly:

Early in his book, Wolpe, rabbi of Sinai Temple in Los Angeles, shares a sobering thought: "Losses are the stuff of life. They will not miss you, they will not steer around those whom you love." The author's search for meaningful ways to deal with loss came soon after his wife, Ellie, was diagnosed with cancer. He admits that his "life was suddenly full of shadows," and he feared that his vibrant wife might die. As Wolpe struggles with his fear of loss and with the daily crises brought by Ellie's illness, he realizes that facing loss requires courage and love. Although he had been writing this book before his wife's illness, her cancer gave him a new perspective on facing suffering. Wolpe uses personal anecdotes, ancient stories of suffering and joy, the sagacious parables of rabbis and the wisdom of poets and philosophers to explore the nature of loss and the ways we can respond meaningfully to it. He notes that throughout life we experience a variety of losses, some trivial and others grave, such as the loss of home, dreams, self, faith, love and life. On the loss of dreams, for instance, Wolpe writes, "Dreams can ennoble us even when they fail.... Each dream can be a step on the ladder we climb in order to become the person we were meant to be." In order for loss to be meaningful, he contends, we must not run from it but incorporate its scars deeply in our lives, face it with faith and courage and celebrate the new identities that we derive from our experience. Although Wolpe really offers no new ideas about coping with loss, his easy manner and eloquent storytelling will help readers suffering from loss feel as if they have found a companion on their journeys. (Sept.)
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About this edition

• Publisher: Riverhead Hardcover
• Publication date: 1999
• ISBN 10: 1573221414
• ISBN 13: 9781573221412
• Binding: Hardcover
• Number of pages: 226